5 MUST - HAVE SKILLS FOR EVERY LADY BEFORE GETTING MARRIED

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As a lady, it is very important to have the skill of multi - tasking. This is the ability to do more than two things at the same time. This is very important because they would come in handy when married. Some ladies might argue that these are not compulsory or necessary but by having these skills, it would save you and your family from a whole lot of stress and ultimately help you save money and time.


1. Catering Skills

Thank God for the internet. You don't have to go to a catering school to learn almost any kind of dish! Asides from knowing how to cook very well, you should learn foundational catering skills such as cake making, how to make some small chops like fish roll, chin chin, puff, meat pie and waterview. So, you don't have to order any cake for your child's birthday or cupcakes for valentine. You can always prepare small chops when you have or are expecting guests. And the best part? You can regulate the ingredients to save you and your family from too much cholesterol which you don't have a say if you get these things outside.

2. Hair-dressing Skills

You don't have to be a bad ass hairdresser or be so good that you can make your hair. All you need to learn is how to weave, do 'didi' and braid. So, why send your kids off to some hairdresser that might over charge and not handle your kid well while plaiting when you can sit in the comfort of your home and make the hair yourself? I remember my mom would make our hair to school when I and my sister were kids. I always preferred it to going outside because I could run away when it was hurting me. Lol. But going outside, where I would have to dip my head between an elderly woman's laps and cry my eyes out and still be insulted was a painful one for me.

3. Money Management Skills

When a lady cannot even handle her personal finances well, then trouble would ultimately loom when she gets married. This is because there is a high chance that you might be the one to handle the finances of the family. Your husband might give you his money and accounts to handle. If you're fond of spending excessively whenever any little cash comes in, then there is fire on the mountain. Learning to save, invest wisely and spend cautiously is very important.

4. Home Management Skills

Just because it is left for you to manage the home as a woman and no, save your feminism tales. A good woman builds her home. So, you must learn how to build your home well and in the right manner. Little to say that you must learn how to be organised and neat. You must learn the foundational skills of laying the bed sheets neatly, keeping the environment tidy, arranging a small space and bringing out the beauty in it as well as other home management skills. You must make the home feel very homely and cozy not just for your family but for visitors.

5. Good Communication Skills

This generation is breeding countless number of lousy women which contributes to the breaking of many homes eventually. Too many women want to speak and be heard but never listen. Too many women are walking on high egos and cannot imagine a man telling them to sit down or giving them rules on what to do and what not to do. They see it as controlling or limiting. But as a lady, it is important to learn the best way to communicate your thoughts, views and opinions in a non - lousy and offensive but submissive manner. As the saying goes, two masters cannot be in a ship. If your marriage would work, you must learn the correct art of communication.

Do you want to know the 5 must - have skills for every man before getting married? Stay tuned!

EMETE

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